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September 4, 2010 – 2:34 am

Rita Mae Brown has been a rescuer of animals “since I was a tiny thing,” she says. Her 2009 book, “Animal Magnetism: My Life with Creatures Great and Small,” bears that out. But she’s also been quite the chronicler of animal life. She has an entirely new series, set in Nevada, with the first book, “A Nose for Justice,” appearing in stores Sept. 20. She reveals to Style Weekly that she’s starting the second in the series, which will be her 42nd book.

What makes this popular Charlottesville-based author — of 19 Mrs. Murphy books, seven “Sister” Jane foxhunting mysteries, a historical novel, a recent memoir and 14 other earlier books with predominantly lesbian characters — tick?

We start the conversation by talking about her many entertaining quotations, some of which you can find at brainyquotes.com. They range from “A deadline is negative inspiration” to “If the world were a logical place, men would ride side-saddle.”

Rita Mae Brown: I’ve never looked anything up on Google because I don’t own a computer ” but, yes, those quotes come from my growing up years.

Style Weekly: You must have a photographic memory not only for all of those sayings but also to create so many conversations between characters that have such authenticity. Can you remember everything everybody says at a cocktail party?

You don’t want to go to a cocktail party with me because No. 1, I don’t drink, and, No. 2, I’ll remember everything you say.

You don’t own a computer — how do you write your books?

On an IBM Selectric — and sometimes on a long, yellow legal pad. Yes, I know — my books eat lots of trees.

You’ve said your mother was “very political and very effective,” but she showed you that you preferred a personal life to a political one. Does this explain why you’ve become more active in recent years in animal-rescue efforts as opposed to your political activity years ago in the anti-war movement, the gay liberation movement, the feminist movement, etc.?

Mother always told me, “You’ll never get elected to anything because you can’t dissemble.” With humans, you get the law of unintended consequences, and even though there’s been a lot of progress in recent years in civil rights and gay rights, there’s always a dark side. People are notoriously deluded and delusional, and animals are not.

Your literary shift from the early books about lesbian relationships to your genre fiction coauthored with your cat, Sneaky Pie Brown, seems to parallel your shift from a more political life to a more personal one. To what degree do you think you’ve changed in the years since your earlier books? I didn’t ever consider myself a strong voice for lesbians. …

But that’s what a lot of the reading public perceived. …

That’s true ” and it’s not fun. For a while it was like I was the only lesbian in America, but it’s a reductive society. You’re a suitcase, and people have to put a handle on you. The way to madness is to believe what you read about yourself.

Some people criticized you — with a double major in English and classics — for betraying your classical education when you turned to writing genre fiction.

My old professors. They told me I was squandering my life and said things like, “You could read Aristophanes’ — Aristophanes is very hard [in the original Greek]. But, to get back to your question, I don’t think I’ve changed. I’ve got friends from kindergarten. … I don’t give myself credit for much, but I do have a gift for friendship … [they] tell me, “You haven’t changed a bit!” I don’t care what people think of me — I never have cared — but I do have good manners.

Do any of your male friends feel the males in your books get short shrift?

No. I grew up with five boys, and I have male friends. The deepest love of my life was Dr. Herbert Jones, who was married — so that couldn’t go anywhere. One of my rules is that if you’re married, I don’t fool with you — but having a great friend like Jones is like having a second skin. He knew what I was thinking before I knew it myself. [Jones, a Virginia Military Institute graduate, was a noted obstetrician who fought in Korea.]

I feel sorry for men generally because our culture has traditionally had higher expectations of men than of women. Failure always attaches itself to a man. Women have suffered the same consequences of the culture — especially back in the ’60s when we were fighting for women’s rights — but we moved on. It’s always been much harder for men to do that, not only because of the culture but because men don’t access their emotions the way women do.

With so many women in the work force today, do you think women are now subjected to the same expectations and sense of failure as men?

Yes, they are, and that’s sad.

Were your parents at all upset by your sexual preferences as you matured?

No. They weren’t upset by homosexuality, and they wouldn’t have been upset if I’d married a person of color. They were much more worried about the possibility of my marrying someone from Georgia. They said they’re all descended from convicts!

What do you think a woman looks for in a female lover that she can’t find in a male lover? Is it physical or psychological? I think it’s both. A man’s deepest emotions aren’t easily accessed. The emotional break-through for a man comes in times of crisis. You’ll always see it when his mother dies, for example. If you’re engaged with a woman, you’ll have continuous emotional involvement. The older I get, the more I ask myself if I have the energy for this.

Do you know the words a woman most wants to hear from a man? I don’t think it’s “I love you.” It’s “I’ll take care of it.” With a man, you gain the advantage of male power. He brings that home to you, and that means a lot. I love the quote from Marlene Dietrich, who was bisexual, when someone asked her who was better in bed — women or men — and she said, “Women, of course, but have you ever tried living with them?”

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