Naughty Girl | What To Do When You Can\’t Approach A Woman You Are Attracted To
March 29, 2010 – 12:25 am
About 98% of all men have a serious fear of meeting a woman they are extremely attracted to. For the other 2% you should know that we hate you. Actually, we don’t hate you we wish we were you.
Seriously, for most men this is their biggest sticking point. I know a guy who took three months just to ask a woman he thought he might like out on a date. The lady said yes and later ended up marrying him. But it took him three long months just to ask!
I don’t want you to go through three long months of pain like that guy did. So, here are a few tips to help you handle all that nervousness and anxiety you put yourself through.
Tip #1: It Hurts Not To Meet Her
Does the pain of being rejected hurt as much as the pain of waiting? That man put himself through three months on not knowing. Three months he wondered what to say to her. Three months he tried to figure out if she would like him.
If he just flirted with her and asked her out he would of known. He could then focus his efforts on meeting a different woman if she did reject him. Lucky for him it worked out. Anyways, you need to realize your going to put yourself through pain even if you don’t take that chance.
Tip #2: Just Say Hi
You could spend the whole day trying to figure out what your first words are to her and never be satisfied with your choice of words. By the time you figure out what to say to her she will be gone.
Try this.
Put out your hand.
“Hi my name is… (Insert your name) I seen you standing over here and I wanted to meet you.”
Will she be shocked? Yes, but its a good kind of shock.
Tip #3: Visualize The Things That Could Go Right
Most men visualize a failed approach rather then a successful one. This is how they talk themselves out of approaching her.
How about you try something a little different?
When you go to approach a woman visualize her shaking your hand, smiling, giggling, and enjoying herself in your presence. You and only you can bring out the naughty girl inside of her.
Its much easier to approach when you see good things happening rather then those bad things.
Tip #4: Give Yourself A Reason To Approach Her
If you just can’t get yourself to approach a woman then give yourself an excuse to do it. You could ask her for directions, what the time is, or maybe even to get her honest opinion on something you could use her help with.
You could also make a game out of it or a bet with friends. “Whoever approaches the most women over the next hour gets free beer bought by everyone else.”
Conclusion
Not every approach will be a successful one. Some women wont like you, some won’t be single, and you will find out that you wont even like some of them. All of that is part of the process. Accept it for what it is and enjoy it while it lasts. Someday you might be wishing you were single all over again.
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