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January 12, 2010 – 1:19 am
1. Pregnancy Happens. Actually, pregnancy doesn’t happen. For a male and a female who indulge in an activity that has a primary outcome called pregnancy, pregnancy is a choice. “I got pregnant by accident” just doesn’t cut it. An accident is when a 16-year-old is so worried about her mascara that the rearview mirror in her car becomes a vanity device that distracts her from noticing the pole in front of her. Bam! Now, that is an accident. Getting pregnant is a choice.
2. Parenthood Obliterates Our Freedoms. The worst age — the most awful time — for a woman to have a baby is when she’s 16 or younger. During her early teens, a female’s body is not biologically developed for pregnancy or delivery; and, unfortunately, it’s also the most inappropriate time of life for mothering a baby. Sixteen-year-olds should be tossing french fries at each other, not burping infants. Everything changes during parenthood. Everything. The most tenacious and capable adults often pronounce parenthood as the toughest experience of their entire lives! A girl who gets pregnant in her teenage years might as well kiss college and career good-bye (at least, she should, considering her baby is going to need a doting, full-time mother for a very long time). Parenting is a new life, a totally foreign experience for anyone who does it.
3. Having an Abortion Engenders Eternal Trauma. Women who have chosen abortion usually do not walk away from their experience with a slight shrug of their shoulders and then calmly go on with their lives. Some women — albeit a minority — will never have another child due to complications from their abortions. Some women die. Many women who have abortions live the rest of their lives wondering: “shoulda, woulda, coulda — why didn’t I?”
4. Bad Reputations Really Suck. This is especially true when a major feature of the bad reputation is sucking. Sure, boys can get away with smutty, skanky behavior, while girls can’t — at least, they couldn’t up until recently. And one of the reasons: jerky, inconsiderate, drooling, frothing, salivating boys are a common part of the teenage landscape; in other words, it’s expected. Girls, on the other hand, are made of sugar and spice and everything nice — or so they say; regardless, girls who slut around become the prime targets of the gossip mongers, and their reputations are sullied. And nobody respectable cares too much for the boys who bed-hop around either, especially if they kiss and tell. Come to think of it, just about every teenager — girl or boy — shuns these especially obnoxious braggarts. Having another notch in your belt ain’t all it’s been cracked up to be.
5. An STD Is Not Something You Dump in the Carburetor. Sexually transmitted diseases can kill you. It is known that AIDS still kills, even though fatal cases have decreased in the past few years. Other diseases, herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis — and scores of others I can’t even pronounce — rear their ugly heads, too. Nobody with a lifelong sexually transmitted disease attracts eager sex partners. Ask yourself this question: How enthusiastic are you about marrying a man or a woman with herpes or genital warts, knowing that you could never ever have unprotected sex with him? Sounds very attractive, no? Even so-called safe sex is risky, because some STDs are transferred through skin-to-skin contact — and pills don’t cover skin. Condoms don
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Tags: sex, teenagers, unmarried sex
